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Storytelling: Inside out: Transgender stories

There is no one narrative for transgender people. Some know as young children that their body and gender don't match. Others struggle throughout their teen years and into adulthood. 

It takes courage, acceptance of self and determination to live life as your true authentic self. So often, members of the transgender community are portrayed as spectacles and "othered."  

This essay aims to break down the barriers between cis-gender and transgender communities, celebrating and honoring those who have transitioned or are in the process. 

 

 

  • {quote}I would like to see more non-judgmental doctors who don't just look at you and assume, 'Oh you look female so you must be female.' That's not always the case,{quote} says RJ Byrne of Portland, 22.Kristyna Wentz-Graff/Staff
  • {quote}People have problems with your pronouns who don’t know you,{quote} says RJ Byrne, 22 of Portland. Byrne says often the mothers of transgender people have a particularly difficult time using a different pronoun {quote}because their mom birthed them. But if my mom can do it, then anyone can do it.{quote}Kristyna Wentz-Graff/Staff
  • {quote}I have everything reassigned for gender all the way down to my birth certificate,{quote} says Sophia Stanford, 37, of Portland, a transgender woman covered by the Oregon Health Plan. {quote}I’m not trying to be in the middle of the spectrum. I want to be treated as much of a female as I am.{quote}Kristyna Wentz-Graff / Staff
  • Sophia Stanford of Portland says gender is a big spectrum, but she has been identifying as feminine since she was a young child. She wants people to just {quote}respect our identity.{quote} Kristyna Wentz-Graff / Staff
  • {quote}I took a year to really think about it...is it worth it to do this at this age?{quote} says Laird Young, 54, of Portland, who transitioned at 51 years old. He says being transgender wasn't even on his radar screen until he was in his early 30s and at the time, transitioning didn't make sense. {quote}It wasn't like I sat around at night crying big fat tears because I was living in my female body. I was like, 'OK, it is what it is.'{quote}Kristyna Wentz-Graff/Staff
  • Bryn Cruz, 21, of Milwaukie began transitioning about four years ago. Bryn is covered by the Oregon Health Plan and says {quote}I had no idea what I was doing because I didn't really have anyone to ask about how to do this process, because everyone else who had gotten this far was using private insurance and they had to fight all their battles.{quote}Kristyna Wentz-Graff/Staff
  • {quote}I’m very optimistic that things have changed so much in the last two to three years, but gay rights took a long long time to happen. I think transgender rights are going to take a long time also,{quote} says says Elaine Walquist of Portland, 64. “My hope is by educating people, the more people become familiar with the topic and with people like me, hopefully society will become a better place.”Kristyna Wentz-Graff/Staff
  • “I feel like my life is on layaway,” says Michelle Storm, 42,  of Lyons. Storm is a transgender woman on the Oregon Health Plan who is waiting for sex reassignment surgery. “I hate the anatomy I currently have with an utter passion,” she said. “I just want to no longer feel sick of my own body.” The Oregon Health Plan covers the surgery but the infrastructure for clients such as Storm to access some surgical benefits is still being worked out.Kristyna Wentz-Graff / Staff
  • Michelle Storm undergoes her first round of electrolysis, meeting with electrologist Alice Berry on March 17, 2016 to remove hair in preparation for Storm's genital confirmation surgery. Storm, an Army veteran, is on the Oregon Health Plan which covers the surgery but the needed infrastructure to help clients such as Storm actually receive the genital reassignment surgery is not yet in place.Kristyna Wentz-Graff / Staff
  • Adem Cardona, 51, of Portland, snuggles with his granddaughter, {quote}Bird{quote}. Cardona describes himself as a trans-man and a superhero fan. Cardona is covered by the Oregon Health Plan and believes hormone treatment saved his life, saying, {quote}Everyone deserves the best life they are capable of living.{quote}  Kristyna Wentz-Graff/Staff
  • Adem Cardona, 51, feels healthcare in Portland for transgender people is improving. {quote}I think there's a start to some programs. I think that the programs are just so early in their infancy that we're not going to see a lot of changes anytime soon. but it has begun.{quote} Cardona plays with his granddaughter {quote}Bird{quote} at a park in Portland.Kristyna Wentz-Graff/Staff
  • The Kachirisky family (left to right) Avery, 13, Kris, Aly and Owen, 16, pile together on a couch, April 21, 2016. Aly and Kris Kachirisky just celebrated their 19th year of marriage. The West Linn couple redefined their relationship following Aly's announcement that she was transgender and eventual transition.Kristyna Wentz-Graff/Staff
  • {quote}They're very proud. It's not like a weird thing to them,{quote} says Zach Ellis, 49, a transman from Portland and father to two eight-year-old girls.  {quote}I think it’s important to have somebody like me who’s not---who’s different than the other guys. It feels like an asset, not like a liability anymore. They’re both lucky to have a dad like me, and that’s taken me a while to feel that way.{quote} Kristyna Wentz-Graff/Staff
  • Severin Leonard, 36, describes himself as a {quote}country boy, outdoors lover, technologist, freshly cut grass aficionado.{quote} He says, {quote}I came out and started living as a trans masculine person last year and I'm currently going through the physical transition process.{quote}Kristyna Wentz-Graff/Staff
  • Bud Feuless, 54, was 50 when she started her transition. Feuless and her wife, now married 35 years, had a period of adjustment as her wife went through {quote}grieving process as she realized she was losing the husband she had had, and now maybe gaining a different partner.{quote} The couple have stayed together by focusing on two key priorities: {quote}keeping me alive and keeping ourselves, our marriage happy. Those have worked great for us. It’s helped keep me from getting too focused on things like passing—is my voice right, are my mannerisms right? It’s allowed me to just be me. To just be myself and be happy with that. To make choices that help keep us happy.{quote}Kristyna Wentz-Graff/Staff
  • Freja Falson, 24, of Milwaukie says without transitioning genders, Falson's life would literally be non-existent. {quote}I kept pushing. I kept fighting like my life depended on it because it did. I’m so happy I made it. Honestly, if there is anything I want to say to anyone who hasn’t made it yet, it’s keep trying.{quote}Kristyna Wentz-Graff/Staff
  • Madisyn Artemesia DelPorto, 28, of Portland, says she she presented as {quote}a super gender queer, nonbinary person for years.{quote} She then {quote}gradually wandered further and further into femininity and eventually started HRT [hormone replacement therapy] and found that the most comfortable place for me to live my life was as a woman.{quote}Kristyna Wentz-Graff/Staff
  • {quote}I am a visual artist and cartoonist,{quote} writes Madisyn Artemesia DelPorto, 28, in an email. {quote}Much of my work draws heavily from my experiences as a trans woman. I have a comic called Tragic Hotline Worker (tragichotlineworker.tumblr.com) which is all about my tumultuous (but also joyous) experience of transitioning, and coming out while working a job at a crisis line.{quote}Kristyna Wentz-Graff/Staff
  • {quote}I have an acute hatred of certain parts of my body,{quote} says Karis Hutcheson, 29, of Portland, who began transitioning almost two years ago. {quote}Being trans isn't a disease. But gender dysphoria is a mental health problem that needs to be treated.{quote}Kristyna Wentz-Graff/Staff
  • Alexandra Steel, 62, says contrary to what you might think, she found transitioning in a small town quite easy. Steel resides in Manzanita, with a population of just over 600. {quote}Folks are curious of course. Someone might label it nosy, but I don’t feel that way. I’m pretty darn willing to talk about anything. It’s up to them to hit the TMI [too much information] button and say 'stop'. But it’s been great.{quote}Kristyna Wentz-Graff
  • Grey Osten, 30, software engineer, Portland. {quote}This journey is about being comfortable and loving yourself. That can look however you want it to look.{quote}Kristyna Wentz-Graff/Staff
  • Grey Osten, 30, software engineer, Portland. {quote}Once I figured out that trans people existed and that was a thing that I could do, I still had a lot of trouble accepting how I wanted to go about transitioning, because I felt like there was only one right way to do that--you have to do things in this order and you have to have these surgeries and have to take these hormones and have to do all this stuff. In reality, it’s a continuum. You can pick and choose what pieces are important to you. This is a choose your own adventure game.{quote}Kristyna Wentz-Graff/Staff
  • {quote}I’m always noticing when men behave in a way that I feel embarrassed by and I really hope to not emulate,{quote} says transman Trystan Reese, 33 of Portland. Trystan and his husband have two children and their parenting journey has been featured on WNYC's podcast {quote}The Longest Shortest Time{quote} and in People Magazine.Kristyna Wentz-Graff/Staff
  • {quote}I think that empathy and awareness is powerful and good and it can also be incredibly painful at times{quote} says Trystan Reese, 33 of Portland. Trystan and his husband have two children and their parenting journey has been featured on WNYC's podcast {quote}The Longest Shortest Time{quote} and in People Magazine.Kristyna Wentz-Graff/Staff
  • {quote}Portland has this amazing community of spiritual women that are kind and compassionate,{quote} says Susan Marie Tracy, 54, of Tigard. {quote}I feel like the humility of being part of that is just so awesome. It’s wonderful. It’s the things I didn’t expect that I love so much about it. I just love my life so much.{quote}Kristyna Wentz-Graff/Staff
  • Leo Soell recently was allowed to announce to their class at Hall Elementary School in Gresham that they were transgender. Leo Soell fought breast cancer last year, following an extended leave, chose to come out in the workplace--they came out as transgender, changed their name to Leo and now go by the gender-neutral pronoun {quote}they.{quote}
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